The Solution for Being Stuck in Comparison Mode
Ever caught yourself in massive comparison mode? Like everyone seems to be doing SO much better than you, for some crazy reason and you’re wondering…
“What’s wrong with me?” #BeenthereDoneThat
Comparison - division - is just Fear in a new outfit.
The ego looooooves to make ourselves appear “separate” from one another - divided.
As if she can have it, but I can’t.
Or it works for them, those people, out there, but not for you.
Look...
Whenever you doubt or catch fear clutching you by the throat again about your future, or your success...
Cheer on someone else’s success.
Seriously, wish them well in ALL the ways from the depths of your soul.
Celebrate TF out of what they have accomplished and as you do, train your brain to know this by heart...
“I can have/do ____________ too.”
This trains your subconscious mind to recognize that that GOAL, that dream, that thing you are working towards us CLOSE...it’s so fucking close.
I literally did this at a Grace Lever event last year and it changed the game for my biz.
I was going to be acknowledged and celebrated for my “big win” of 2018 along with about 30 other women, many of which had MASSIVE money wins waaaaay bigger than mine back then.
Million-dollar years.
Million-dollar launches.
AND, OF COURSE, ALL THE FEELS, ALL THE QUESTIONS OF - DO I DESERVE TO BE HERE...
Is my “big win” really worth being acknowledged along with these other GIGANTIC wins....
And was my achievement “enough” to be celebrated with other women who made 10X as much as I did…
Came flooding into my mind.
BUT, THEN I REALIZED THAT THERE WERE OTHERS THAT HAD OTHER WINS, THINGS I’D ALREADY ACCOMPLISHED…
Closing their first client.
Launching their first group program.
Achieving their first $10K month.
...And that’s when my gut said these small words that I want you to say with me right now…
“I CAN TOO.”
So I whipped out my pen and my journal and started ferociously scribbling EVERY. SINGLE. WIN.
EACH WOMAN WHO WAS ACKNOWLEDGED, I SCRIBBLED THEIR ACCOMPLISHMENT AND SANDWICHED IT IN BETWEEN “I CAN ____________ TOO”
When the celebrations ended I had page after page (and a righteous writer's cramp) of a list of POSSIBILITIES.
“I can have a million-dollar year too.”
“I can have a team that massively supports me.”
“I can travel the world.”
“I can retire my husband.”
“I can close $30K packages.”
“I can travel the world and have my business making multiple 6-figures.”
“I can be a mama and a multi-millionaire.”
“I can do a 7-figure launch.”
And the list went on and on...
Train your brain to recognize your own potential for great possibilities.
That way, the next time you see someone living their best life, or buying that house, or achieving that income goal, or becoming that thing...
Say it with me...
“I CAN BE/DO/HAVE _______ TOO!
Then DECIDE if that’s something you actually want.
If it is, freaking GO FOR IT!
QUEENS SUPPORT QUEENS AFTER ALL.
Remember, your reign is now.
P.S. If you’re soooo over comparing yourself to 6-figure earners, wondering WHY you aren’t there yet, then jump into my Masterclass on Wednesday, October 14 @6:30 PM PST.
REGISTER FOR THE MASTERCLASS HERE
I’ll be showing you the EXACT 13 Mindset shifts, both myself and my 6 and 7 figure clients have made that have allowed them to…
⭐️ Achieving half a million in sales in their second year and getting engaged!
⭐️ Growing their teams 300%!
⭐️ Working with the top luxury brands!
⭐️ Doubling their list size from 7,000 to 14,000 in 3 months!
⭐️ Scaling from $25K months to $50K months!
⭐️ Having their first $10,000 day!
And it doesn’t matter what business or industry you’re in. My clients run the gambit between celebrants, coaches, event planners, quilters, chiropractors, to leadership development.
Having worked with 5, 6, and 7-figure entrepreneurs, I have seen that there is a very distinctive mindset gap between 5 and 6 that we will be bridging during this masterclass.
Let’s get ready to make 2021 your best year yet in your business.
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