The world won’t give you your freedom
The number one thing most of my clients come to me for is not to build their business or boost their productivity.
Ultimately...
It’s to have FREEDOM.
Freedom inside their empire...
...Instead of being a slave to their laptop.
...Instead of being beholden to some other boss.
...Instead of being trapped in their mind of frustration, guilt, anger, and all the “shoulds” other people have projected onto them.
Most people are just looking for freedom in all the wrong places.
They look for it out there -
Maybe if I just do this new diet or new marketing strategy, THEN, I’ll get freedom in my business.
Maybe if I just have THAT car or THAT bag or that thing, then I’ll get freedom through other people’s approval of how cool I am.
Maybe if I just get MORE words of affirmation, MORE validation from others that my work is valid, real, true, THEN, I will feel free.
Maybe if I just get more sales or make more money, or get a raise for a new job, THEN, I will be able to BUY freedom...luxury vacay for two to Hawaii, please!
Maybe if I just get another coach or course or mentor or program or webinar or thing, THEN, I will find freedom.
Freedom isn’t “out there.”
Freedom is in YOU.
It’s your job to unlock it.
IT’S IN FREEDOM WHEN YOUR SUBCONSCIOUS MIND ALIGNS WITH THE LAWS OF THE UNIVERSE.
It’s when you have stripped yourself of the plagiarized programming, the “should’s” of how you were told you “should” be, what you “should” do, what you “should” have and get down to the raw, naked core of who you are - THAT is where freedom is.
The very notion of freedom being “out there” in another THING is exactly what keeps you enslaved.
If you look to the world - you’ll easily see, peace, ain’t happening.
Peace, freedom only comes when you align yourself with Love - real love.
Not manipulative love.
Not “control” that you deem to be love.
Not what other people tell you “should” be love or even “is” love (meaning, what their conditioning tells them is love.
Not hiding in the familiar or the “safe” (which is really just fear grasping you by the balls.)
But true unconditional LOVE in ALL your relationships.
In your relationship with God.
In your relationship with your business.
In your relationship with your body.
In your relationship with your partner.
In your relationships with your customers.
In your relationships with your kids.
In your relationship with your money.
YOU DON’T FULLY LOVE YOURSELF IF YOU'RE NOT ALLOWING YOURSELF TO BE ALL OF YOURSELF.
And, how can others fully love you if they don’t even know the REAL you, if all they know is the version of you, the chameleon, who has adapted and camouflaged herself to be what she thinks they will love, instead of who you actually are.
Now, this isn’t to say that your relationships don’t have boundaries - of course, they do.
Those boundaries don’t stop you from loving the person, they just stop you from maybe having that person be such an active participant in your life.
Your boundaries are your non-negotiables.
Like me with money - I am loved and supported fully by money.
Like me with my clients - The more fully I AM me, the more I attract my soul-mate clients.
That’s a boundary.
It’s a declaration.
It’s a non-negotiable I have in that relationship.
And, hey, it’s worked in my forever marriage - having the freedom, the permission, and the mutual respect to LOVE, ACCEPT and RESPECT ALL of who we are.
So even something funky happens in my relationships with anything - money, business, Spike, Decky, whatever - I can look to that boundary, and ask myself - did I cross this? Have I been living by this boundary of being FULLY MY MOST authentic and best self? Am I operating by this non-negotiable?
Usually, if something funky happens, no.
So I shift, pivot, forgive myself, and recommit to that boundary.
And BAM! Money, love, freedom, peace flows in.
The question is...
What’s your set of non-negotiable boundaries for your freedom?
Freedom REQUIRES the structure of boundaries - a set of standards, principles, beliefs that you operate by.
Sometimes the world has set these for you - versions of plagiarized programming that you’ve chosen, consciously or unconsciously into.
But these are of the world.
You don’t have to keep them.
YOU CAN CHOOSE NEW BELIEFS, NEW BOUNDARIES, NEW PRINCIPLES TO DECIDE HOW LIFE GETS TO BE FOR YOU.
When you set these - not the world - THAT is freedom, baby!
Remember, your reign is now.
P.S. I am teaching a powerful masterclass on shifting into the freedom to 6-figures without burnout (aka being something you’re not and doing things that aren’t in your “Zone of Genius”).
Mark your calendars for October 14 @ 6:30 PM PST.
REGISTER FOR THE MASTERCLASS HERE
And get your booty registered here to start living an authentic life of FREEDOM on your terms.
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