What’s Your Fantasy?
CONFESSION TIME: I love me some dirty rap. 🎶
Oh yes, I mean my white girl booty can get down and Christina Agularia style diiiiiirrrty with Ludacris, Nikki Minaj, and some WOP when the mood strikes.
(If you’re with me on this, please let me know 🙌🏼)
One of my faves is Ludacris' “What’s Yo’ Fantasy,” I mean whooooo, baby it’s already sending off the dopamine secretion in my body. (Yes, that is a real thing...just THINKING about a song that gets you in the mood will trigger the dopamine in your brain.)
So here’s the thing about fantasy…
WE AS HUMANS ARE MOTIVATED BY TWO THINGS:
No.1 - To Move AWAY from Pain
No.2 - To Move TOWARD Pleasure
Having coached 5, 6, and 7-figure high-achieving leaders for nearly the past 5 years, I have seen more people be motivated by No.1 (PAIN) than by No.2 (Pleasure).
You DON’T want to be stuck making only 5-figures anymore...that’s PAINFUL!
You DON’T want to be stuck feeling unmotivated...that’s PAINFUL!
You DON’T want to be stuck having the mediocre results you’ve had in your business...that’s PAINFUL!!
Problem is...
Moving AWAY FROM pain is a short-term motivation strategy.
You can only live there for so long.
IT’S JUST LIKE THE FIGHT-FLIGHT RESPONSE.
It works in the short term...and really freaking well, I might add.
But eventually…
Either you have to continuously seek after things that scare you to trigger that short-term emotional response.
Or…
You self-sabotage back to square one, so you can trigger the fight-flight response again.
It’s neurobiological.
I’ve seen countless high achievers who have achieved a TON, do the latter simply because they are familiar with square one and know that if they self-sabotage back to there, they can make it back…
They DON’T know how to go into the unknown.
Into pleasure.
This is ironic because typically it’s the audacity to go into the unknown because something is so PAINFUL that is the reason why they became successful in the first place!
Here’s the secret…
You have to switch on your LONG-TERM motivation strategy: PLEASURE.
Pleasure, feeling good, living into your vision, creating, sexual energy - it’s all this magical creative space that is SUSTAINABLE for the long-term.
Most just don’t know how to tap into it.
THIS IS EXACTLY WHY I’VE BROUGHT IN MY FRIEND, THE MULTI-TALENTED, LUCI LAMPE - AND SERIOUSLY, ONCE YOU READ HER BIO YOU’LL SEE HOW PLEASURE CAN BE SUCH A POWERFUL MOTIVATOR.
Luci Lampe is a mom of 4, sexual empowerment & mindset coach, award-winning singer and songwriter, commercial actress, lifestyle & fitness model, 3X author, and entrepreneur. Her writing has been featured on the Huffington Post, Forbes, Entrepreneur.com, CBS, and Fox.
After a 6+ year hiatus from the music industry, birthing two more little humans, overcoming an autoimmune disorder, and surviving hell as a family through her husband’s 2-year disability and depression, Luci returns with a bold, unapologetic message of freedom and courage.
Professionally, she draws upon her studies and certifications in neuro-linguistic programming, cognitive behavioral therapy, hypnotherapy, reiki, counseling, EFT tapping, and her degree in Exercise Science, to create unique, powerful programs and curricula for her clients and members.
So will there be music in this class...absofreakinglutely!!!!
Will there be various forms of pleasurable movement to discover where pleasure lives in your body?
You betcha sweet booty there will be!
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And let’s get you working BOTH your motivation strategies…
IF YOU’VE ALREADY GOT PAIN DOWN (AKA MOVING AWAY FROM FEAR OR THINGS YOU DON'T’ WANT), ISN’T IT TIME YOU MOVED INTO PLEASURE, AND ALL THE GLORIOUS THINGS YOU DESIRE TO BE, DO, AND HAVE IN THIS WONDERFUL WORLD?
Remember, your reign is now.
P.S. Speaking of dirty rap, Luci also just dropped her latest cover of “My Neck, My Back” and I’ve got my fingers crossed we will get a listen of it during this masterclass!!!
SO MAKE SURE YOU’RE ON LIVE ON THE ZOOM SO WE CAN ALL GET DOWN + DIIIIIIRTY AND EMBRACE THE POWER THAT IS OUR PLEASURE!
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