Why You Should Get Comfortable Getting Uncomfortable
Did you know that your discomfort is a GOOD thing? When you feel overwhelmed, uncomfortable like you want to blame someone, or you feel gross, weird, awkward AF, all of those are signs that you are teetering on the edge of a new way of being.
A new identity awaits on the other side of everything that makes your ego want to scream and run away, hiding under the rock of its excuses.
You see your ego will want to keep you small.
It may take the face and voice of others, cajoling, nitpicking, or deriding you for how you do things, chipping away at your confidence.
It may take the face of people you love, who give you horrible advice like, “That’ll never work” or “isn’t that risky?”
It may take the form of your kids, using them as an excuse not to grow beyond.
It may take the voice of your partner, looking like “the voice of reason” to all your “crazy” ideas.
It may take the form of people on the interwebs, spewing hate, or saying that you’re “too much.”
Too much?
Too much for whom?
You see in all those instances, it is your DECISION - consciously or unconsciously - to accept what they say is true.
When those comments touch on those parts of you that feel shame, guilt, smallness, anger, it allows those comments to stick. And consciously or unconsciously you start to play small as a result.
YOUR RELATIONSHIPS ARE THE GREATEST REFLECTIONS OF YOURSELF.
Mirror, mirror, right there.
And if they’re reflecting a fear of “too-muchness.”
It may be them, yes.
You may be shining so bright that it’s illuminating the darkness that they’re in.
Your “too muchness” can be a reflection of their own small game that they’re playing.
BUT IF IT LANDS, IF YOU FEEL THOSE CRITICISMS AND SMALL THINKING CRASH INTO YOUR HEART AND MAKE YOU WANT TO CRUMBLE, FADE AWAY, AND DISSOLVE INTO THE BACKGROUND - THEN THERE IS STILL A PART OF YOU WHO BELIEVES IT IS TRUE.
Mirror, mirror neurons, baby!
You cannot see anything but what you are.
Or as Nelson Mandela said, “You cannot say anything but what you are.”
So if you feel on the verge of your identity and what it has been - small, mediocre, or anything less than what you know you can be - it is now your time to claim it.
You must decide - burn the boats!
Decide now that you are worthy of your spotlight…and turn up the fucking heat.
Decide now that you are playing a much bigger game.
Decide that you are going to do what it takes until it takes, and you will keep going when it takes because it IS TAKING now.
Find the evidence in your life.
See the synchronicities.
Notice the “coincidences” of the Universe supporting you in your expansion.
It really comes down to basic neuroscience.
You are training your Reticular Activating System on what to focus on. If it sees smallness, it will continue to see smallness, but if you practice, day in and day out to just notice how God, angels, spirits, the Universe is working to support you right now in all that you do, you will start to see more opportunities wherever you go.
You will literally rewire your brain, your hardwiring, and the software of your subconscious mind to see more opportunities to expand into your Highest, best most Sovereign Self.
You will start to see your expansion in every breath.
You will start to see new possibilities every moment.
Your world will rearrange as you start to rearrange how you respond - consciously - instead of reacting by default at the moment.
You will start to see this world as a Warrior for Possibility, challenging the “status quo” of “fine” or “how it’s always been” and consciously choosing that YOU DESERVE MORE BECAUSE YOU DO. PERIOD.
End of story.
Remember, your reign is now.
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If you dare to lean into the discomfort, I will support you in daring to turn your dreams into your reality. It’s your choice to decide, now, to lean in. You can choose to lean into the fear that you’ve been listening to for…how long? Or you can decide now, that you’re done with how you’ve done things till now. You’re done with results, that quite frankly, you know you can do better.
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