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Hello, my fellow sovereigns.
It is good to be back in the
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studio with you today.
I mean, I know you're not here
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with me, but I feel you with me,
and it is such an honor. I am like.
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Pull in from this past six seven?
Nope.
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Eight weeks of travel now where
I have gone to conferences,
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spoken at conferences,
gave a coronation at a conference.
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It has been a whirlwind of nationwide
travel that has been such a joy
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and such an energetic up leveling,
because I definitely had to
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restructure things in my family
life in order to make sure that it
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everything was going smoothly, and I
learned very quickly that my youngest
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son does not like me being away.
I mean, what what child likes their
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their mom being away anyways.
But if I am away on a trip of
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any kind the next day or two,
I have to dedicate to my children
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like it is not even an option.
Like they are so clingy,
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they are so in need of my attention
after that time of being gone
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that I really deeply dedicate and
care for that time to rebalance.
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Even though you know, I don't believe
in balance, but to rebalance,
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for lack of a better word,
the the paradigm of connection and
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making sure that they feel so loved
and supported in my in my absence
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and when I get back and that they
know mommy always comes home.
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One of my favorite experiences
was when I was giving the
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coronation at the Dames with
Precious Pitch Master Williams.
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And if you don't know who she is,
I'm going to put her links to
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follow her and how amazing she
is in the comments below.
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It was such an honor to share
the stage with her, she jokes.
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She's like, I'm a full figure diva
and I was like, I'm a fun size mama.
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And so together we were coming
together in full force to make
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sure that these dames,
which is an amazing group of six
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out and eight figure businesswoman
that I have been blessed to be a
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part of for the past three years.
These women just left this fun
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friends because it's cool.
Fun friends.
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It's not called a conference
that they left with an
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incredible experience of
embodying the Queen from within.
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Because when I was asked to do
this coronation, I was told like,
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I don't just want by the founder,
Megan Condra.
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She's like, I don't just want this to
be like another seminar or another.
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Like, here's your five step to do's.
She's like,
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I want this to be embodiment.
And she's like, you know how to
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do that? And she just trusted me.
Like she literally was like,
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here is the entire conference of
people that have entrusted me with
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with their time and money and coming
to this fun prince, and you just
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go for it. Do what you want to do.
Precious and I met once online, once
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in person before the fun Prince. We.
I sent her an outline of what we
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were going to do.
She was like,
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I'm going to follow your lead,
queen. Let's go. And we did it.
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And I mean, it was such an honor
because if you know precious and
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you will because you're going to
follow her because she's amazing,
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that she is a full just amazing.
She commands her presence and to for
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someone to see that I could hold
the stage with her as two sister
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queens together, united as a as as
as a front for for women, taking
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command and taking back our power.
Oh my gosh,
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that was the biggest honor.
And it was so beautiful that as I was
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with precious, I was meditating and
thinking about what does it mean
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to treat things with preciousness?
So you get you know,
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I get nerdy on language.
So I'm going to read to you the
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definition of precious because
it's amazing.
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And mind you, now I am talking
about the word, not the person.
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So precious is an adjective.
It means an object, substance,
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or resource of great value not to
be wasted or treated carelessly.
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Precious works of art,
greatly loved or treasured by
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someone or used for emphasis,
and sometimes in an ironic content,
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And then as a noun, it's used as a
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term to address a beloved person.
So it's a perfect name for precious.
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And it got me thinking about
preciousness in our businesses
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and in our lives.
When we start to treat things
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with a level of preciousness.
Because I see preciousness in
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two ways.
In one, I see it in the manifestation
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principle of reverence.
Now, in order to create and manifest
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anything in this world, you need.
Two. You need three things.
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You need to be specific as far
as what it is that you want.
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You need to be courageous to take
the bold action to go for it.
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It's not just about the vibration of,
you know, being in the vibration
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of courage, like the vibration of
courage is an active vibration.
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You have to move forward and do
the scary action, send the email,
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call the client back,
have that courageous conversation.
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Hold the boundary like you have
to take that courageous step.
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And then the third is there has to be
a reverence along with the fourth,
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which I didn't mention.
There has to be an underlying
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basis of positivity.
So but the reference piece is the
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one that I see is regularly missed.
Is having this reverence or having
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a reverence or a preciousness for
what it is that you're doing and.
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That reverence is what is a through
line that carries forth and beyond.
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Into a space of the spiritual realm.
It takes the work that you're doing
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and it is bringing honor to it.
It is.
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I mean, think of this in terms
of the Queen metaphor, right?
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So a queen has reverence for her duty
because it is her responsibility
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to put that forth into the world.
And so this was something that I
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talked about with precious on
stage at the coronation of a queen
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is born with the expectation
that she's going to rule.
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And there is a level of honor
and respect and duty and
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reverence for that role that is
cultivated not only by herself,
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but also by the people and leaders
around her and by the environment.
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And there's a reverence for the
role of Queen.
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That's why even in the anointing
ceremony of the Queen, it is hidden,
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because that is the most.
Reverent portion of the ceremony,
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whether it's the Queen or the
recent coronation of the King.
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Like that ceremony is where it is
believed that she is anointed,
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or he is anointed with the holy oil
that binds them with the divine
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to be guided by God's source
universe's holy wish. Like that.
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That is a level of reverence
that takes place.
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Now imagine if you infuse that into
that which you want to create.
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Oh my gosh.
Like if you treated the work that
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you're creating as a holy work of
art, whether it's your book or your
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business or your super sexy sales
strategy or your systems that you're
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building for your for your team,
if you supported that with a level
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of reverence and preciousness for
what it is that you're doing,
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treating it like a work of art,
like something that is precious.
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Now, I said,
I see preciousness as twofold.
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So the other part that I see
that gets conflated in
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preciousness is when.
We come at treating a project,
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a business, something that we're
working on with pride. With.
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Overt hyper attention to the details.
Now, there can be overt hyper
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attention to the details in a
positive way, which is very true
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of like you look at the top CEOs
of the world and they have an
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incredible knack for details.
I mean, if you study Steve Jobs,
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he was very clear,
like there was a whole discussion
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around the decision to make the
edges of the Mac laptop or the
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Mac computer rounded, not square.
It was a whole thing,
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like a precious.
That is a precious detail that I
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actually, quite frankly,
appreciate because I'm not
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scratching myself on the corner
of a computer and. Looking at.
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Where in your life are you
treating your or where in your
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life or in your business?
Are you treating something with such
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preciousness that you are refusing to
release it, to let it serve others?
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Because that is the difference
between the reverence that comes from
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the highly ordained service where
it's like, okay, I'm going to I am
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in this role of Queens is my job.
I have reverence for this title.
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I have reverence for the
business that I'm building,
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for the empire that I'm creating
because it is serving others,
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because it is a reverence to
service versus a preciousness
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where you are holding tightly to.
That thing and not releasing it
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so that it doesn't serve anyone.
Because.
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If you're not getting it out of
you or having it move through you,
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it is serving no one and in fact it
is keeping you stifled and stuck.
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And that is when pride starts to
create preciousness and it
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builds up into perfectionism.
And it creates more resistance and it
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builds up a wall and it blockades
you from actually serving you, sir.
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And it blockades you from
actually serving others.
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It's like that ruler. Like you.
I mean, if you have studied any form
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of history of any monarchs or any, governmental leaders who kind
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of build up a wall of protection
around themselves, and they don't
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they're just the dictators.
They build up a wall and it's
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everything's precious about them.
But nothing is really for the
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service of their people.
And that is where we have to look at.
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Where are we being precious in a
positive way, treating what we're
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creating as reverent as something
that's going to be of service,
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that something is divinely called
forth from us, through us.
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One of my favorite quotes is from
Joan of Arc, and she says, and it's
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her quotes are so well known because
her trial was so deeply documented.
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And so what she said was very
well known.
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And she said, I have no fear,
I was born to do this.
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And she took this calling from
within,
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from the angels that she heard.
And she marched into battle and
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stripped herself self of her female
sort of style, and put on battle
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armor and led troops into victory.
And I mean, that's war.
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That is war that she was leading
people into.
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And she had courage and reverence.
For what?
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For the calling that was called
forth from her.
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And I believe that every creation
that we have is called forth.
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We are called to create those
ideas that we are blessed with.
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One of my favorite books is Big
Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert, and in
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it she talks about an idea of the
kind of it touches people's lives,
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but if they don't do anything with
it, it floats onto somebody else.
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And it's like, have you ever had
those experiences where, like,
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I had that idea like 30 years ago,
and then you see it on Shark Tank.
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And believe me, I have heard that
one too many a time from way too
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many entrepreneurs who have really,
really good hearts and they just
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didn't follow through with those
things that they that were called
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forth in their hearts to create.
And whether it was fear or scarcity
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or doubt or imposter syndrome, which
all basically translate into one,
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the one and only fear, then that
is where we get stuck, where we.
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Don't trust our own calling.
Where we treat that.
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That thing with maybe preciousness.
Like maybe if you and I have seen
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this way too many times, if you get
stuck in the research rabbit hole.
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Oh, I'm going to release my I'm going
to start my business if I just,
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you know, I'm.
Oh, I'm still writing my book.
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Believe me, I had this excuse.
It is no longer there.
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The book is being written.
You just wait.
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2024 is a year of the books.
And yes, I said it was plural.
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Hold on to your hats because it's
with that preciousness that.
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We take every word super precious,
and we take every piece of
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content as super precious,
and we're so scared that it creates
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this level of perfectionism within us
that no longer treats preciousness
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with reverence. But it treats it.
With pride. And ego.
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And causes us to hold on and
lock down and lock ourselves in
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that castle tower.
Surrounded by our creation.
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That's not serving anyone because
we're not releasing it. And so.
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It is with this day that let this.
And so on.
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This day, I challenge you to let
this be the day that you purge the
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precious perfectionism with from
your work, from your creations,
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from your business, from your life.
And you start treating
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everything in your life that you
are creating everything.
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I mean, from your eggs at
breakfast to your cup of tea,
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to your children, to the relationship
that you have with your partner,
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to the relationships that you
have with your business and your
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clients and your team.
Treat all of that with a level
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of precious reverence.
And watch how your business will
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transform.
I think reverence is a whole like
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level deeper than gratitude.
Gratitude because we can have
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our gratitude list and it keeps
it all surface.
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And it's like, hey, I'm grateful for
this, and I'm grateful for my house,
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and I'm grateful for my family.
You feel into the difference
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when you have reverence for the
holiness that is in the spaces
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that you're walking into?
For the creation that is being
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birthed through you,
for the divine ideas that you
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have been blessed with.
Not any other people have not been
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blessed with them yet because you
still have time to take action.
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You just gotta choose to take action.
And so let this be the day that
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you purge the preciousness of
perfectionism from your work, and you
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start to cultivate that precious
reverence for every single thing
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that you are doing and honoring.
Those acts,
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because it is from that space that
you embody a queen or a king,
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and you claim that sovereignty of
the power of your manifested souls,
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as we say in our house, yes, manifest
as we swing them large lying.
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Yes,
that's actually what we call them.
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I have boys, it it works that
you swing your manifesting souls
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and that you honor that you are
inseminating. Oh, yeah.
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We're using all the references here
that you are inseminating your dream.
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With reverence. And a preciousness.
For that which was given to you.
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Because that which was given to
you can be taken away if we don't
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honor it, if we don't use it,
if we don't cherish it.
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So keep honoring,
keep cherishing. Keep.
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Putting preciousness in the form
of reverence into all that you do.
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And more of that will come.
If you love this episode.
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If you felt it served,
if you felt called fourth,
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then definitely take a screenshot
of it and share it with me on
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Instagram tag at Crown Yourself Now.
And I love seeing your screenshots
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and your breakthroughs and your
ahas and your reviews.
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And please, please, please do me
the biggest, grandest favor and
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just share it with one person.
Because that act of kindness not only
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benefits me and the listenership
and the growth of this podcast,
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but it also brings you some
sweet good karma and it also
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benefits the other person.
This is how we start to lead and
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lift each other up, because that is
how a rising tide lifts all boats.
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I have the utmost reverence for you,
and I am so grateful that you
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have listened this far and are a
continued, loyal listener.
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Thank you for subscribing.
Thank you for listening.
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Thank you for sharing.
I am honored to be here with you
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on our sovereign journey.
As always, own your throne.
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Mind your business because your
reign is now.
