Recognize the 3 Secondary Gains that Keep You in a Place of Pain and Suffering and How to Quickly Shift Your Beliefs to Love and Wholeness
Every belief - even the self-limiting ones - serve a purpose, which Kimberly calls "Trojan horses." Learn how the Trojan horses of your subconscious mind are giving you psychological secondary gains in this episode and how to combat them.
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In this episode, you’ll learn what a psychological secondary gain is and how it’s keeping you stuck (2:00), why you should deconstruct the Trojan horse and use the wood to rebuild your kingdom (3:00), how safety, connection, and acknowledgement are the oxygen to all beliefs (4:30), why safety is key for your core beliefs - positive and negative (6:00), how guilt, shame, and blame create community (8:00), what your unconscious mind is doing when it hears you talking crap about someone else (9:30), the BEST question to ask to change the way you’re connecting in your relationships (11:30), why I don’t listen to the news (14:00), how positive acknowledgement for your problems can reinforce your negative beliefs (16:00), why turning down compliments is putting blinders onto you receiving real acknowledgement (18:30), what to say to yourself to recognize the 80% of times you receive compliments and miracles (20:00), how my eating disorder served me for ten years (22:00), and so much more.
Tell me, what are the secondary gains that are stuck in your subconscious?
Tell me in the comments.
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