Your voice is your superpower.

And it’s needed more than ever.

If there has been a message stirring on your soul, begging you to unleash

One the motivates

Inspires

Challenges the status quo

Champions others to new heights

Connects.

Is born from your deep heart of service…

From your primal human need to connect…

NOW is the time.

There is no more “waiting to be ready,” or more prepared.

THE PREPARATION IS BRED FROM PRACTICE.

The practice of going out…

Sharing your message…

Using your voice…

Day in and day out…

Doing it.

To put yourself out there.

To make the choice:

STAND OUT FEARLESSLY 

Or blend into the background.

Be in front.

Leading.

Serving.

Being the example.

Being the change.

Or the herd. 

The sheep of colossal consumers glutinously gasping for purpose… and still starving. 

YOU KNOW YOU WERE BORN TO STAND OUT. 

To lead.

To reignite and redefine your industry.

To rewrite the rules of how life, business, love gets to be.

Not be a part of the crowd.

Having coached leaders and entrepreneurs for the past 5 years, I have seen a direct correlation of income to the amount of time the leader is spending in their zone of genius.

So let’s say, for example, your zone of genius is sharing your story and connecting in a powerful transformative interview. BOOM! That is one money-making hour of depth, transformation, and relationship building that could turn into a client, a referral, a strategic partner, an affiliate, a customer!

YOU FEEL ALIVE, INVIGORATED, EMPOWERED COMING OUT OF THAT INTERVIEW, BUZZING FROM BEING IN A STATE OF EASE AND FLOW - THAT’S HOW YOU KNOW YOU’RE IN YOUR ZONE OF GENIUS.

But then…

Because you have your own podcast…

And you don’t have a team or an editor…

You spend 10 hours editing your podcast, which…if we’re being honest…is in your Zone of competence. 

Meaning, you CAN do it.

You’re OKAY at doing it.

You’ve LEARNED how to do it.

…But, when you do it, after those 10 hours you feel drained. Tired. Half-dead.

We are living in a world right now where, now, more than ever, cultivating a skillset of communication skills is vital to the survival of our species. 

We have learned how to argue, complain, berate, share evidence and communicate a side of which we believe we are beholden to be “right” about. 

Now, more than ever divisiveness is circulating, instead of diversity and curiosity. 

Black and white, right and wrong, good and evil  - “sides” prevent us from seeing the bigger picture, or holding a bigger vision for our future.

And it’s because of people not knowing HOW to deeply communicate. 

It’s not our fault. We haven’t been taught. We’ve been taught WHAT to think without question, now HOW to think differently.

Communication is a skill set that every known monarch, politician, and leader MUST cultivate in order to rise.

No matter who they are, the ones we see leading companies, cultures, and countries have cultivated the ability to communicate their perspective well enough for peop...

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How to Brag About Yourself

(without Being a Narcissistic A**hole)

A lot of times when people call us names or say things like you’re “too much” or “too bold” or are selfish for wanting more, or you’re stupid for being into whatever it is that lights you up...I want you to know this from the bottom of my heart...

IT’S NOT YOU. IT’S THEM.

While I’m not one for passing the buck or shifting the blame onto others, perception is projection. It’s mirror neurons, baby!

And sometimes when you are shining so bright, there are other crabs in the bucket who have gotten used to being dull and cruddy that your radiance scares them and they want to pull you down because of that.

So just know...

You are not intimidating. 

THEY ARE INTIMIDATED. 

You are not “too much.”

They’re just used to playing small. 

You are not a bitch.

They are not used to honesty, candor, and assertive communication.

You are not selfish.

They’re just used to not wanting or asking more for themselves. 

YOU ARE NOT UNWORTHY.

They just haven’t claimed their worthiness.

You are not...

I’ve always known this was going to happen - having a TEDx talk.

Sure it was on my vision board, but that’s not what actually moves mountains. 

The thing is...

I had already DECIDED it.

Most people don’t decide. They live in the land of mediocre vacillation of “wanting” or “would like” or “trying” or “it’d be nice if…”

Of course, it’d be nice to have a million dollars, right?

Of course, there are many people who WANT to have a TED talk?

And I’m sure there are also many people who have TRIED to have a TED talk…and…just…haven’t.

Why? Because they tried. 

They wanted to. 

They thought it would be nice if…

That is not DECIDING.

DECIDING means it’s happening. 

Period. 

Like no matter what. It is done. It is on its way.

It’s like putting in an order at a restaurant….

You DECIDE what you want, do the work (you know…you order it, you tell the waiter what you want), and then you TRUST it’s coming. 

I’m going to own it - I fucking LOVE the hustle. I love the drive. I’ve got big ambitions.

No, that doesn’t mean I work ALL THE TIME. I work a lot. I love it. 

I also make time for beach walks, park time, playdates, dance class, date nights, and the gym.

I just fucking love what I do. It’s a blessing that it now is a choice. 

And when I get an intuitive hit to do, I do.

Like my gut said - 16 hours after giving birth. “Check your email.”

And I did.

There it was.

I’d sent the request out into the Universe. 

I’d done the work. It wasn’t much. Just a little research and a few emails later.

And there it was staring at me - a dream coming true.

TEDx. 

I’d like to say I couldn’t believe it (because that’s the norm.) But, honestly, I could. I knew. 

Spike had just walked in the door from getting dinner, and he saw me, like this robe on, baby asleep, computer out…16 hours after giving birth.

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